But to you who are listening I say:Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat you. If someone slaps you on one cheek, turn to them the other also. If someone takes your coat, do not withhold your shirt from them. Give to everyone who asks you, and if anyone takes what belongs to you, do not demand it back. Do to others as you would have them do to you. âIf you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that. And if you lend to those from whom you expect repayment, what credit is that to you? Even sinners lend to sinners, expecting to be repaid in full. But love your enemies, do good to them, and lend to them without expecting to get anything back. Then your reward will be great, and you will be children of the Most High, because he is kind to the ungrateful and wicked. Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful.â
Luke 6:27-36 NIV
This is one of those passages we all say we don’t need to go over again because weâve heard it a million times and we know what it means and what we need to do. And I think thatâs great. So I just have one problem. Because it is that common and we heard it a million times and we know what we need to do, why aren’t we doing it? Why donât our actions match up with what we know to be right?
Think about it. How many of us, when we get hurt by someone, just let it go? I would say not many of us. In fact, I would put myself in that category as well. When people hurt us, we find ways to hurt them back, or think about all the possible ways we can exact revenge on them. When they do something stupid that benefits them and puts us out, the next opportunity we get, we put them out. We’re a culture of simple.
And unfortunately, we’re using the golden rule in the opposite direction. How many of us when seeing someone grab something of ours, even if it was accidentally, jump across the room, if necessary, and snatch it back for ourselves? And looking at what this passage says, how many of us are offering them more than what they wanted? The passage talks about when youâre giving away your shirt, to give away your coat as well, even though they never asked for it. How many of us when we’re asked for a dollar, give away 5, just because we have it and we want to help? But again, we earned and bought our own stuff, so we’re not going to let anyone take it away from us âeven if they ask nicely. How many of us give when we’re asked? I know at times I’m asked for things that are not worth much of anything, but I have this mindset that it’s my pen and you can go get your own. But the guilt sets in and I end up giving it away, and what happens? They finish using it and they walk off with it.
Figures, right? I help them out, and they take advantage. But Jesus is saying we need to give and give freely, not expecting or demanding it back, even if it puts us out. So as I said, these are verses we know. They were ground into our heads when we were younger. Weâre continually told to turn the other cheek when we feel used and abused. But knowing something with your head, and doing something are two completely different things. Just thinking about doing the right thing is not as good as actually doing it. So instead of just going the bare minimum for God, let’s stretch ourselves farther because as we serve those in need, we honor and glorify our amazing God.
Questions
1. Do you turn the other cheek, or do you hold a grudge?
2. Tell about a time you held a grudge or got revenge? What happened and how did it make you feel afterwards?
3. Do you freely give away what you have, or do you try to find ways to say no nicely?
4. When you do give, do you give more than what was asked for?